When Iain Maitland’s eldest son left home for university he wrote regularly to him; funny, curmudgeonly letters chronicling their family life and giving Michael unsolicited and hopeless advice on everything from DIY to women. He never expected a reply – they were simply his way of continuing their relationship. What Iain didn’t realise was that away from home his beloved boy was suffering from depression and anorexia. Only much later did it become apparent to Iain and his wife just how oblivious they had been, and for how very long. Told through Iain’s letters and the unfolding reality of Michael’s situation, Dear Michael, Love Dad forces us to question how well we can ever truly know our loved ones, but most of all expresses the unbreakable bond between a father and son.
‘This is a wonderfully entertaining and moving book, with lessons for every parent. ‘ Daily Mail
‘Wonderful, moving, humorous … extremely poignant.’ Charlie Mortimer, Dear Lupin
‘…by turns acidly funny, exasperating and poignant, painting a moving portrait both of mental illness and of a father in denial. But paternal love… shines through.’ Caroline Sanderson, Sunday Express
‘A moving read – honest, funny and sad.’ Woman and Home